I don't want to hurt you by saying things that you won't like listening, then why on earth are you not willing to do the same for me?
 If I care about your feelings,  your sentiments, your opinion, your thoughts then how come it is hard for you to feel the same way for me!
 Look we are all living individual lives, right?  We all have our own worlds, be it a happy place or a hard one to live in but we all are having it differently.  We all have been through some really gross shit and have experienced a lot of our own.
 Therefore we must not judge!  We must not Judge! 
There is no need to deduce things out of something you have no idea of.
If I am having a bad day,  for sure, I am in a bad mood.  And now the person meeting me for the first time will assume that I am  a cold person or the person coincidentally meeting me after a long time will definitely think I am the changed one.  Both of the assumptions aren't really right, which means you judged me wrong.
So never ever try to be over smart and think of yourself as the ultimate authority of decided who is up to what and why!
You don't know them, you don't know what the heck is going on in their heads and hearts, you don't have a slight idea of what problems they are facing and what stuff they are trying to sort.
Let this world be a good place,Let's not demoralise each other and most importantly let's not be afraid of the stereotypes and norms of this so called modernised society. One of them being "They want to see you do good, but not better than them!"

We must try our bit to balance it, to make it peaceful for them and us!