WHY DO WE CARE ?

There is always something about you that keep you hitched to certain thoughts toxic to your brain, prevailing in our generation a lot. We often think about the things which keep our self respect knocked down by those we think we love. We keep on investing our part , our soul's part, our mind's part and a part of our tiny heart. What we get from it is either nothing or something leading to nothing. Over the time we lose our big part ,trying to get what can / cannot be ours regardless of our frustration that keeps coming along with it, because what is meant to be will always be. It doesn't matter how good you are ,how bad you are, how much character you have and to what level you can stoop to. It simply does not matter because at the end of the day you only have those who love you not those who you love. And those who love you , love you unconditionally. No matter the flaws, scars, past, mood swings, caste, creed, complexion, or Whatever. They just love, love you. And those who you love will try finding reasons to love you and with reasons comes blurring of the interest because at one point of time they suddenly lost their own reason to love that reason so they get fed up and eventually leave. I am not saying all this in context of love we get or we expect from our partners, i am talking in general about friends, family, relatives, neighbors etc. We often get affected by the jibes they flung on us, the taunts they keep chanting about us or the points they keep discussing why everyone should hate us.
 So i was thinking , why do we care ? Why do we give them importance at all ? Despite the fact that internet, Instagram, Facebook, twitter, you tube, snap chat and even dps and status on WhatsApp are filled with 'motivational quotes' and 'not care a bit or give a damn' type posts, still we keep thinking about the negativity we get from some people. Why do we ? We should not, because they ain't worth it. We should care about those who love us without a condition.